Why do we dread being vulnerable so much? Why is it not okay not to be alright? Why are we so scared to have a weakness? Aren’t we humans? All these questions race through my mind and are certainly going to drive me insane if not answered. Is it our ego or is it our unconscious minds tricking us into thinking that we are above vulnerability? Or is it a defense mechanism we humans use to hide our insecurities, vulnerability, or imperfections.
Things You Should Know
But what you really need to know is not what in your minds causes such a reaction; instead, what you want to know is why is it not okay to be flawed or imperfect in the first place. But some questions cannot and will not be answered.I wholeheartedly hope we start truly accepting that being flawed is okay; well more than okay as it really accentuates the fact that we are human. Making the solution way more important and much needed.
1. You Are Fine Just The Way You Are
You’ve always been told what you should be, what you should do, and what you should say. No one ever tells us you are amazing just the way you are.
2. Life Does Have Good Moments
We are constantly being told life sucks or life is everyone’s enemy. Life is nothing more than what we make it.
3. He/She Isn’t Worth It
Life might have both wonderful and horrible moments but sticking with someone who makes the horrible moments more frequent is not worth it. You don’t have to stay with someone because it benefits them in some way. Being selfish when it comes to your happiness is OK. Never drag yourself down for another person.
4. You Are Strong
Everyone and I mean everyone, is going to or has already had hiccups in life. To those who haven’t yet: belief in yourself. When the time comes, You are going to become the strongest. You’ve ever been and you will look back and remember it with a smile on your face. To those of you who are still recovering: Dig deep inside yourself and find that strength you know everyone has.
You are your own fortress. Those walls can’t fall now. To those of you who have recovered: You always knew you could do it. I’m not glorifying sickness; instead, what I’m saying is that don’t ever be ashamed to be vulnerable, weak, or to ask for help simply because nobody is complete or whole and everybody is flawed, beautifully flawed. Together although we are flawed we’ll help mend one another.
SPREAD LOVE ALWAYS.
This is a great read with excellence in the beginning, in the middle and replete in excellence in the end.
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Brilliant. I loved reading it. And I like the images you have Incorporated
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Love this 💖
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Thank you!🌹
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Very nice post 👌🏻the second advice is my favourite!!
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I’m so glad to hear it!☺😇
Thank you so much!🌹
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Such a feel-good piece ^^
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Thank you!🌹 I’m glad you enjoyed it. I appreciate it.☺
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My pleasure 🙂
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Beautiful advice and another heartwarming post if I may say so. Very beautiful, I always get a smile on my face when I read these 😀
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Thank you so much!🌹 I am so grateful to hear it!☺😇
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As humans we are all flawed, the secret is turning weakness into strength!
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Thank you so much!🌹 It’s certainly something I am learning more every day!😇
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I have been about turning several very deep flaws into strengths. It’s all about healing from the inside out.
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Thank you so much!🌹 So true, This is the best way!😇☺
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Beautifully written.
No one is perfect. Everyone is faulty.
We need to embrace our weaknesses which we cannot change, but also fight to be better with the weak points we CAN change.
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Yes exactly! I’m glad you enjoyed it!☺ Thank you so much for your kind words!🌹
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Hi Alice,
great post
I vote for number five. We have a great power and we are real power
With that knowledge any obstacle is weak 🙂 Thank you
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Thank you so much!🌹 I’m glad you enjoyed it!☺
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Always spread the love 💜 I love this. So positive, and we really all do need to remember that it’s okay to be imperfect and flawed – it’s what makes us, well, us.
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Thank you so much! 🌹I’m glad to enjoyed it!☺💜
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Very nice post! Great advice!
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Thank you so much!☺🌹
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Love this post, very inspiring
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Thank you so much!🌹☺
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Truly wonderful!
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Thank you!☺🌹
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This was an awesome read!!! I love how you sprinkle positivity like glitter on this post! You picked the perfect pics to go with it as well!💖💛💙💜💚
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Thank you so much for your love!😻💜 It means a lot to me!😊
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Fantastic stuff, thanks for all the blog love. I’ll make sure I catch up with your blog soon ☺️
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Thank you so much!🌹😊
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That’s is encouraging.. Thank you ❤❤
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Thank you so much!😊🌹
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This is great! Enjoyed reading this. ❤
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Thank you so much!🌹 I’m glad you enjoyed it!😊
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Superb article👌👌✌
And to answer your one question.. we are a combination of ego, insecurities and vulnerabilities which we are trying to hide. 😉
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Thank you so much!🌹☺ Your words are true wisdom! I absolutely agree with you!😇
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Brilliant idea
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Awesome post, my dear! I gave you a follow!! You are super beautiful and write really amazing posts!!! 💕 I can’t wait to read more!
Nice to meet you, Alice!
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Alice is really an ICON! Everything here is PERFECT! The write-ups! The Photos! The Plots! Fantastic! 🙂
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Awww, I’m so glad to hear it! Thank you so much for your wonderfully warm, generous words! Means a lot to me!☺🌹😻
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🙂 You’re most welcome! What I see is what I really appreciate. You are an inspiration to others at your young age. Really great! You can go farther than this as I can see, if you don’t stop!
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Thank you so much for your support, for being part of my journey and for welcoming my words! It’s a very huge compliment for me! I really appreciate it! Wishing you all the best! Bless you! Take care!
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I’m glad, that’s so wonderful to hear! Thank you so much!☺🌹
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Purrfect post, Alice, very inspiring ❤ Pawkisses for a wonderful day 🙂 ❤
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Thank you so much!☺🌷
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nice…
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Thank you!
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Merry Christmas…
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You’re a transparent person, Alice; no masks. That’s a rare commodity these days, and I appreciate it. Thank you for following my blog, and I wish you a joyful, meaningful, and memorable 2018.
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Thank you so much!😊🌷
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Thank you so much!😊🌷
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Simply beautiful!
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Great advice for anyone 😀
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