In 2017, I grew really much as a person and today I’m gonna share something. 2018 is just started and is a perfect opportunity for some changes. What doesn’t kill you makes you kind and stronger, literally.Last year I did more things on my own and it really made me feel stronger and more capable.
I can’t tell you this enough but all that I have experienced that the strongest person I know, whose heart has been damaged, disappointed and tossed away for granted. A warrior in their own special way. That person is probably anyone. I have come a long way to realize, no matter what your heart has been through, Someday you will find happiness.We can’t imagine our self-being mean to someone else’s heart. Regardless, people say after you get your heart broken, you change and you turn into a cold-hearted person. But I disagree, We didn’t change, We are still as kind as we were before we got our heart broken several times. Being kind is a gift, if you are still kind to people regardless of what you have been through, then you deserve all respect from yourself.
You can’t lose your kindness in this world, no matter what you going through. Whether you have people to help you or alone, most of the times you are on your own. But it’s ok. That way because there are days when nobody is there for you to support you and stand by you, It’s better than before when always feel like a cold-hearted person. Because you will learn how to find strength out of nowhere and make it count not only for you but for everybody around.
Finding your thing really makes you grow as a person.
Every day of your life is going to be another fight, another challenge that you have to go through.
This year I got better at kind behavior towards everyone and love myself. Of course, I feel insecure sometimes but it’s not as often as before at least.This year I started reading, writing and drawing more regularly and it feels fantastic like I’ve found myself. Feel confident in what you’re doing and you have somewhere to express all your energy and creativity.But always remember that
No Need To Get Approved.
You need approval from you and only you. Because you are the only one who knows what you have been through. This should make you the proudest human ever. You don’t need anyone to approve how strong and capable you are. It’s the most important thing ever.
It’s rare to find
Kindness these days is rare to find and if kindness is still a big deal to you. Then I congratulate you for being an amazing human being.
There’s so much more I could list. And I’m not saying any of this helped at all but whatever you’re going through will past. And then you will be the kindest and happiest person. Be kind and strong wake up every morning with a goal.
This is so true . So many have forgotten how to be nice in a common way. Respect and see outside our own box. And what you say about ppl who’s been trough so much often are the kindest is something I have experienced . I’m also a warrior. I had to shut ppl out for using me, hurting or just be mean. We can choose to be nice and tolerate more.
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Thank you so much!☺☺ You’re absolutely right, The power is within us! I’m glad you can relate! Sending you love and light on your journey!🌷🌷🌷😇
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Great post. I do my absolute best to be kind and I know only too well what it feels like to be the recipient of unkind behaviour (when I was growing up).
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Thank you so much!☺ All the best, take care!🌷🌷
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Loved the title itself
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Mso true and beautiful written dost
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I’m happy for you!
Well said.
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Truly beautiful.
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Reblogged this on Die Erste Eslarner Zeitung – Aus und über Eslarn, sowie die bayerisch-tschechische Region!.
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You are very welcome!
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That was a breath of fresh air to read. Congratulations for having found your way to the road that leads up the mountain and transcends negativity. Reading this reminds me of when I first discovered it for myself. Yo, don’t you ever stray to far from this road. You will stray from time to time, especially in the beginning, but the longer you’re on this path, the longer you have this clear unfiltered perception of reality, the more love of life you’ll have. And the joy you’ll experience is going to reveal to you things about this universe of ours that would currently be unfathomable to you. Thanks for sharing! Me, you, and others like ourselves are few and far between, but we absolutely own our lives, our world, and our futures. Welcome to the club 😉
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Thank you so much for such beautiful words! 💜 I really appreciate the support!💜 I wish you all the best. Love and power to you!😇🌷🌷
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What a great reminder! Too often the hurts of the past can spill into other relationships. Only we can stop this. Thank you
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Thank you so much!💜💜 I’m glad you can relate! ☺
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The best post I have come across in a quite time ❤️
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Aww, Thank you so much!☺💜💜
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Welcome ❤️
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Great post. I try to recommend to others to be kind to people or say hello because you never know what they’re going through and doing so might make their day or even save their life. Thanks for sharing😊
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Thank you for stopping by!💜💜😻
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You as well💜💜😊😊
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I can so relate to this. I have been through some really bad times but I’ve really come out stronger. We only become more confident in our own skin when we are able to break away from toxic relationships where people take us for granted. We evolve and completely understand how it is important to be kind to those in the receiving end. This evolution is more beautiful due to the intrinsic kindness we possess. I’m glad you wrote this!
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Thank you for the love!💜💜 I really appreciate it! I’m glad you can relate! Wishing you all the very best on your journey! I’m truly grateful! Take care!😇💜
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Take care you too! ❤
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Yes i agree with your post..
Loved every bit of it..
Your blog is lovely ❤❤
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Thank you so much!🌷 I really appreciate it! 💜💜☺
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You’re welcome❤❤ im glad 💖💖😊
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I wish for you to experience kindness, to the extent possible, each and every day. If others stumble, be the example of kindness.
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Thank you so much! Your words are true wisdom, I absolutely agree with you!💜💜
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So true and I needed this girl! Thanks so much Alice!🌹🌹🌹
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You’re so very welcome!💜💜💜
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Reblogged this on Touch My Spine Book Reviews and commented:
I was battling with my depression even more lately and today I pulled up WordPress and this really helped with today’s depression. I have been through countless life experiences of abuse, torture and just being backstabbed but haven’t lost my ability of loving and forgiving others even if they’re not sorry. I guess reading Alice’s post just really hit home today and gave me some hope about learning to love myself for once. Alice posts some great motivational articles, you guys should check her page out if you get a chance! Much love to you all! xoxoxo
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You’re an incredibly kind soul, Thank you so much for such beautiful words and being brave enough to share them here! It’s always so magical knowing someone else can relate to the truths of your soul! I am so happy to hear it and truly honoured to be in such amazing company! We’re not alone, there are so many of us here that share such similar experiences! I wish you all the very best on your journey! Power and light to you! Love you! Take care! 💜💜💜
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I agree, Alice!😍 So many people go through so much pain! We all hurt! Xoxox You are such an amazing friend and I love all your kindness and motivational articles! You are so talented and strong!😍 Love ya and take care as well!😊
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Awww, Thank you so much! You are also very amazing! I am so happy and humbled to know that!😻😻💜 I’m truely blessed to have you, being part of my journey!💜💜 It means the world! xoxoxo
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I feel exactly the same!!!😍 XOXOXOXO🌹💜🌹💜🌹💜
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From the bottom of my heart, Alice. Thank you so much for this… I’ve come across your post from a friend of mine, Dani. She reblogged your post. And thank God she did, i wouldn’t have read this.. 2017 wasn’t really good to me due to depression.. It felt like the most failure of a year for me, But I’m set to do things differently this year. And your post really helped motivating me. *Hugs*
And yeah, thank you for not giving up on life. 🙂 and your heart.
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You’re so very welcome, Thank you for reading. I am so happy to hear this really helped you out, It really means a lot to me! Thank you for your support, and for welcoming my words, it’s so appreciated! Take care! Love you! Best wishes to you 💜💜💜
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🙂 🙂 Your word s really mean a lot to me too. Take care too and sending love.*Hugs* Looking forward to more inspirational posts from you. Have a great day. 🙂
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But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, Galatians 5:22
Thank you for this informative and very kind post God bless you! Kindness is indeed a gift!
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Thank you my sister in Christ! And sending you back much love and may the blessings of the Lord overwhelmed you!
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Love is kind. Alice, it was kind of you to remind me.
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So true! I can’t but be kind after all I’ve been through. I guess I am wired that way thank God! There are instances though that I would have loved to be wired differently so as to be mean to those that haved been too mean to me! But I couldn’t and it was painful. I asked God why he created me full of kindness!!. Love my “weakness” even more now!
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Kindness is hard to find these days, Alice, but when we react kind to an unkind situation or purrson, at least it doesn’t affect us. Great piece of writing! Pawkisses for a furriendly day 🙂 ❤
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The world could do with some more kindness. First of all we need to be kind to ourselves, and in so doing kindness to others come by itself. As you say, nobody knows what others have been through, so we should treat everybody with kindness. An inspiring post, Alice.
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It is hard to be kind especially if things are going awry or if it’s never returned. Staying kind in spite of everything is definitely something to strive to do. Great reminder thx!
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Hello Alice 🙂 . You’ve been nominated for Sunshine Blogger Award by me. Keep on shining and bringing light in to this wonderful world :).
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I read this again today. It’s always good to have writings like this to come back to every now and then. Kind of like going back to a well for water. Stay blessed.
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Thank you so much!☺☺
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This was so well written thank you for sharing
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Thank you so much! 😊🌷
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Very welcome 🙂
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